August 18, 2004
Hi all, Just a quick note, Grampie died today before lunch. We don’t think he had any pain but hasn’t eaten or drank much since SUnday ( I THINK I e-mailed then, but I am not sure). David and I have been there every day for the past five days visiting and helping out, and we went today when we found out. It was good to see the body, now I know that he really is gone too. It sure helped the greiving. The funeral should be on Saturday.
Love you all, I just wanted to let you know In Christ Rita
Ps. for those that didn’t know, he was a Christian and we are greatly conforted by that!
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August 12, 2004
Hi hi All
I just thought I would write and tell you the latest news. David and
I are still doing well. Still in NB and waiting to go to the
states.
Good news is that we received papers for the last step for the Visa,
Horray!!!! We have done some of what is required and sent the papers
in for processing. Right now we are waiting to call a doctor in
Halifax to make an appointment. He is on vacation until tomorrow, so
won’t be back into the office until Monday. We will call then to set
up an appointment. The earliest we could get an appointment is 2
months, they say it’s 2-4 for get it. But once we have everything in
place we will push a lot harder to get it sooner. Lord willing!! He
is good!
Grampie is continually getting worse, but it’s very gradual each
time. It’s hard to say what the process is because it’s so slow. We
are staying there Friday night again incase Grammie needs any help.
We are back there again on Monday because Mom and dad are kicking us
out of the camper for a night :) My sisters are coming home on
Monday
and some of Mom’s friends are still here from Ontario that night, so
my sisters need our bed :)
Good news! David has been praying for a computer for the past two
weeks or so. We even went yard saleing on Saturday. On Monday I was
talking to my sister in Ontario and she said they just got a new
computer and is going to bring the old one here for David to use!
It’s so exciting. David and I Have been talking about how he could
get
a cheep or free computer and we prayed about it together and I was
sure we would get one, now we are! God is good! We don’t know how
he
is going to provide all the time, but he does and that is great. OH
yeah, the reason for hte computer. David is really getting antsy to
do something that takes thinking. He’s been on vaction for 3 months
since we have been married and is getting ready for something more
challenging again. (Not that we haven’t had our challenges!)
The biggest reason I want to write is because I think I finally found
something that I want to do with my life. After years of uncertianty
and seeming lack of direction or passion, I think I have found
something I would love to do. Short story:
One day I was praying for God to become first in my life again (it’s
hard to keep him first when I have such a wonderful husband, but
David
is just the gift from the awesome giver, and a great one at that) and
for some reason my mind jumped to sex. Sorry guys, just being blunt
and honest. My thoughts were (not R rated) about how is it not
anything like I would have expected before I was married. It takes a
lot of work. and my thoughts jumped to Teens and how easily they get
messed up in physical things WAY too early. It’s got to hurt them!
Emotionally a LOT. I KNOW it does. My heart started to ache for
them,
not for the first time.
Since that first thought I haven’t done much more, but it keeps coming back up in my head. And I have found that I really care about this. About kids and letting them know the truth about sex. The problem is, I don’t even know the facts that much. I am sure so many of them could educate me more than I could them. (at least about the details) For once, I want to learn. I want to know what I can so I can help. a LOT.
Tomorrow I’m going to call the crisis pregancy center and see if they are still looking for volunteers to see if I can help. Lord willing, where ever we go it won’t be too hard to look for another place to volunteer or work part time. Then we will see what God wants from there. I’m really excited about this and I have to say that this is the first time I’ve felt any direction since choosing to go into youth ministry at Dordt over 6 years ago. God is good and I hope I can be used as he wants.
Now to find David a job…. :) Please keep praying, still not much direction there. But we know that God has a plan, we will know when it’s time.
I love you and and miss you like crazy!!
IN Christ, he is great! Rita and David
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